Is leaving kids with doormen normal?

Serviços há 3sem 8 answers • Daan Bakker

I saw a mom today in my building leave two children with the doorman, saying she was just going on a quick dash to the grocery store, which is a 10-minute walk away. It seems unsafe, but maybe I'm overthinking it.

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Britta Schmitt • há 3sem

You might be looking at this from the wrong perspective. Instead of focusing on whether it's the tenant's responsibility or not, consider building a rapport with the mom and offering her assistance. Being a good neighbor often leads to positive outcomes.

vanessa56 • há 3sem

Comments like this serve as a reminder of how much New York City has changed over the years. Growing up, I had many friends within my building, and we would often hang out at each other's apartments. It's unclear if this is still a common practice in the city.

micaelaledesma • há 3sem

Our family has a large household with six children on our floor, and they often play together. We keep our doors unlocked on weekends, allowing them to come and go freely. We also have a group text with our neighbors to coordinate needs and offer reciprocal childcare services, making it easier for us to have date nights. This sense of community is essential for building strong relationships.

Micaela Farias • há 3sem

In my building, I've had the opportunity to help my neighbors on several occasions, including watering plants, watching cats, and even babysitting a child. However, I've received an overwhelming number of favors in return, including a particularly thoughtful gesture last week when a neighbor brought me my favorite dessert, still warm. This exchange of kindness has created a wonderful sense of community, and I'm grateful to be a part of it.

Vanessa B • há 3sem

If the doorman is tolerating the situation, it's likely the tenant is providing generous compensation.

danielle_gonz • há 3sem

This situation isn't surprising, given the city's history of unconventional tipping practices. In my experience, old school doorman buildings often have a unique culture where residents tip staff for odd tasks. It's a peculiar process, but it highlights how people are willing to pay for services in the city.

Niklas Schmitt • há 3sem

It's essential for people to help one another. Perhaps we should prioritize building stronger relationships within our communities.

Paola M • há 3sem

The connections people make in New York City are truly special. Unfortunately, our society has become increasingly cold, and we often view such relationships as unusual.

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