British weddings: how to get married in the UK

UK weddings require giving notice at your local Registry Office at least 29 days before your ceremony, with civil ceremonies costing an average of £17,300 (excluding ring and honeymoon). Understanding legal formalities and traditions helps ensure your big day goes smoothly whether you're having a civil or religious ceremony.

Wedding Types in the UK

Two main wedding types exist in the UK: civil ceremonies and religious ceremonies. Civil ceremonies take place at register offices or approved council premises with a licensed registrar. Religious ceremonies occur in religious buildings conducted by licensed ministers.

Around 82% of weddings in England and Wales were civil ceremonies in 2019, reflecting changing attitudes toward marriage.

Same-Sex Marriage in the UK

Gay marriage became legal in most of the UK in 2013, with first ceremonies in 2014. Northern Ireland legalized same-sex marriages in 2020. Same-sex couples have equal legal rights as heterosexual couples. Religious buildings can hold same-sex weddings if registered for same-sex ceremonies.

Legal Requirements

Anyone can marry in the UK if they are at least 16 years old (with parental consent if under 18), not already married or in civil partnership, and not closely related. Non-UK citizens may need marriage visitor visas.

Required documentation includes passport or valid ID, proof of home address, proof of name changes, decree absolute if previously married, death certificate if widowed, proof of immigration status, and details of where and when you intend to marry.

Wedding Planning Steps

Book venues and registrars early as popular locations fill quickly. Plan ceremony details, reception, catering, photography, attire, and entertainment. Give notice at your local Registry Office at least 29 days before your wedding. Complete the ceremony and receive your marriage certificate.

Wedding Costs

The average UK wedding costs £17,300 excluding engagement ring and honeymoon. Major expenses include venue (£7,600), dress (£1,300), photographer (£1,200), catering (£3,000-4,000), and drinks (£1,500).

Traditional British Wedding Customs

Popular traditions include spending the last night apart, wearing something old/new/borrowed/blue, the bridal veil, walking down the aisle, exchanging wedding rings on the fourth left finger, throwing the bouquet, carrying the bride over the threshold, giving sugared almonds as favors, wedding speeches, and the first dance.

Next Steps

Research venues, check availability, gather required documents, and book your registrar well in advance. Consider wedding insurance to protect against late cancelations.

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